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SUBMIT.

INTRODUCTION.
FULL NAME: daphne anne blake
NICKNAMES: daph, danger-prone daphne
ALIASES: the danger / crush
AGE: nineteen ( verse dependent )
DATE OF BIRTH: december 25th
BIRTHPLACE: coolsville, ohio
SEX/GENDER: cis-female
RELIGION: agnostic
ORIENTATION: bisexual
ETHNICITY: caucasian
OCCUPATION: part-time investigator / one fifth of mystery inc –– slash part-time ( creative writing ) student ( with a brief career in investigative journalism ).
LANGUAGES: english and some french
APPEARANCE.
HEIGHT: 5′7″ without heels
WEIGHT: 120lbs
BUILD: a small waist, pear-like frame, flat stomach ( occasionally poochey after a few too many ice cream sundaes and strawberry rose bouquets ) and breasts that sit somewhere between a b and a c cup. ( meta found here )
COMPLEXION: thin-skinned and pale in the winter-time, with a scattering of brown freckles over the tops of forearms, shoulders and nose (however the latter is usually hidden by makeup); in the summer, her skin has more color to it, without being too tan ( thanks, spf 30! ); also, daphne tends to get her body hair lasered away, but shaves when on the road to save time, so, as a result, little, red bumps on her skin are more common when travelling.
EYE COLOR: straight up purple ( well, really her eyes are a very intense blue that comes across violet to the untrained eye, think elizabeth taylor )
HAIR COLOR & STYLE: typically left down and tumbling down her shoulders, it’s held in place by daphne’s iconic headband. occasionally she’ll take it out, only to replace it with a silk bandana in a gorgeous shade of lilac that beautifully accents the coral hue of her hair; it’s thick and healthy, with a sheen not unlike that of a pantene commercial ( thanks, mommy blake! )
NOTICEABLE FEATURES: nose is pert and a little upturned, often contoured slightly to make it look a little more button-ish; daphne tends to dress in shades of purple and pink, accented by occasional splashes of black or white if she’s feeling crazy; her lips are full and pink, the lower slightly more plump than the top and typically painted with a dusky, matte pink and clear lipgloss, and also she tends to smell of something feminine and light, like rosewater.
VOICE CLAIM: grey delisle
FACE CLAIM: kat mcnamara ( alt: amy adams )
HEALTH.
PHYSICAL DISORDERS: PCOS ( poly-cystic ovarian syndrome ) and a shellfish allergy
MENTAL DISORDERS: MILD-MODERATE PTSD ( verse dependent ) / IED ( verse four )
EATING HABITS: in comparison to scooby and shaggy, everyone is a healthy eater, if you ask her. however, having been raised along side five sisters with completely different dietary habits, by a mother that’s a hard-core vegan and a father that adores his meat, daphne’s indulged every kind of diet under the sun in order to reach the one she currently follows. this means eating whatever she wants, but in moderation, and no more than four sweet things per week, since she easily gains weight when it comes to carb-loaded foods. also, it’s important to note that daphne very, very rarely ever eats chocolate. she’s something of a chocaholic ( understatement! ) so it’s definitely a bad idea to give her chocolate. however, she dislikes eating red meat and tends to stick to leaner meats like fish, or rarely: chicken.
EXERCISE HABIT: in half of high-school, exercise mostly was composed of p.e classes and the occasional tryst through her family’s in-home gym. in high-school she stuck to yoga and occasionally gymnastics. but, after she started getting serious about getting fit while mystery inc was split up, daphne began to learn karate and combatives, training up to four times a week –– five if she was really feeling herself. when she isn’t training at the gym with her personal instructor, on a normal day, daphne will start the day with stretches and some yoga, and do a few reps of squats, burpees and jumping jacks. this, of course, alternates day to day, though. on the road she doesn’t get to exercise as much within the routine, but all the running away from the bad guys definitely isn’t bad for her health ( well, if you don’t count the several heart attacks she gets while being scared crapless during each case, that is ). kick-boxing, as she gets older, becomes a favourite sport.
PERSONALITY.
POSITIVE TRAITS: can be patient, romantic ( will follow her heart over her head ), well-meaning, filled with determination, loyal to her friends, steadfast in her beliefs, and can be hilariously dramatic.
NEGATIVE TRAITS: stubborn as hell, easily made envious ( in romantic situations ), somewhat vain, a touch judgemental, a little too emotional, and can be easily worked up / made vulnerable / manipulated.
TALENTS: singing, convincing others to underestimate her, navigating in high-speed car chases. surfing, thinking fast in intense situations, playing the keyboard / guitar, riding a motorbike, some ballet. ( what makes daphne a good detective )
ZODIAC: capricorn
MYERS-BRIGGS: ESFP
HOGWARTS HOUSE: gryffindor `( most verses ) / slytherin ( verse 4 )
OVERVIEW.
in most verses, daphne’s personality and aesthetic is inspired by a mix of the old scooby doo series’ and the movies –– she is a little air-headed in certain aspects, and not always the most street-smart, but she’s also fiercely determined to improve herself in all aspects where it matters ( to her ) –– my daphne will stop at nothing to prove herself worthy ( because in her own eyes, she doesn’t always believe she is ). she is a stead-fast feminist, but also doesn’t completely understand all aspects of it and a huge part of her character development as a whole is gradually learning more and more. ( read about her arcs here )
in my second verse, inspired by the mystery incorporated series, daphne’s a little less interested in actual feminism and proving herself, but also feels a lot more included by mystery incorporated, so she doesn’t always feel the need to prove herself as a part of the gang. she’s more easily jealous here, and a little more overdramatic.
in my fourth verse, my southern gothic au, daphne is a lot angrier, and is actually the brawn of mystery incorporated. she has a lot of frustration and anger held up inside her, and she’s definitely a lot easier to set off, as such. she’s more volatile, less dreamy-eyed and one to try and never show weakness. ( read the bio here )
NOTE: please make sure to read about the individual verses as there are key differences in aesthetics / personality aside from those already mentioned depending on each one !
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pro tip: before getting serious w a man, just casually mention ur period. like, just say ‘my cramps are bad rn’ or ‘I have to go buy some pads’. his reaction is very telling of how mature and understanding he is. you don’t wanna be dating a grown ass man who gets grossed out by the word menstruation. u deserve someone who is comfortable w u and I do mean all of u. you’ll be thanking urself for doing it now and not later hun!
THIS IS REALLY INDICATIVE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT A LOT OF THINGS. TRUST ME.
True story. Once, I dated a guy once that wouldn’t let me pay for my own pads him he has with me. He wouldn’t go out and buy them himself if I needed them though. I had to stand next to him, which defeated the whole reason for him going to buy me any. Was uncomfortable with period talk and letting me pay for things myself.
Once, I also dated a guy that wouldn’t even stand in the pads alley with him. It grossed him out. Everything about my period grossed him out and he didn’t want to touch me. Just left me alone and didn’t want to deal with any of it. Wouldn’t even stand next to me when I bought pads.
Now, the guy I’m with and going to marry, he is a whole different story. I was dying of cramps and got my period while finishing up a class. (My campus can get very bad to the point where I’m shaking in pain or unable to move) Mistakenly didn’t bring pads and texted I needed him to do me the biggest favor. Not only did he buy me pads (something he does from time to time when I need them) but he marched through campus with them not bothering to hide it and brought me Advil.
Last week, I was dying in pain and lost my hot pack when I went to visit my mother. I asked him to buy me a new one and he forgot. So, I’m in massive pain near tears and it’s past ten at night wishing I hadn’t been so stupid as to lose it. He gets dressed and goes out to get me a hot pack even when I tell him over and over that I can wait until morning and I don’t want him to go not because he needs to go to bed.
He flat out says “I love you. You asked me to get you a hot pack and I forgot. Now, you are in a lot of pain and I can’t stand to see that. So, I’m getting you the hot pack and I’ll be back soon.” Comes back with the hot pack, ice cream and a candy bar.
Not saying all men need to be this level of nice. But I am saying that bring up your period in a casual manner is a great way to see how people will treat you when you are sick, not feeling well, or just basically how they handled things.
ACTUALLY THEY DO NEED TO BE THAT LEVEL OF NICE THOUGH
You are absolutely correct, and I was a fool not to realize it sooner.
My grampa was like this. I still remember sitting in the bathroom throwing up, because hella period nausea, and him holding my hair out of my face and like … not exactly rubbing my back. Sort of patting it. Like he was trying to be comforting but wasn’t quite sure how, because a 17-year-old girl throwing up and crying and telling him this was normal was outside his wheelhouse, which, given that he was in his 70s at the time and married my grandma when she was already in menopause, is understandable. Anyway, he went and called his niece for advice. She told him to give me plain herbal tea for pain (since Advil wasn’t staying down) and put me to bed, and he did and asked if I needed anything from the store, and went out and bought me pads and extra herbal tea, and called my school and told them I was sick and he was keeping me home.
If a man born in 1929 can pull it off, boys, so can you.
#look#I’m gay and all #but if you cannot talk to your partner about the fact that you are IN PAIN #that you’re feeling shitty at all and not be shirty about the reason why #that’s not a person you want to be with
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